Relationship coach advises woman on trust issues

A woman reached out to relationship coach Jane Green after feeling uncertain about her husband's feelings. This doubt arose after he accidentally said his ex-wife's name during intimacy. The couple is in their thirties and has been together for three years. The woman has always had fears that her husband still loves his ex-wife, especially after hearing her name at such an awkward moment. She described her reaction as immediate shock and tears. Her husband apologized, claiming it was a mistake. However, the woman found it hard to shake off the incident. Her concerns deepened when she started checking her husband's ex-wife's social media and learned that the ex is now single. This made her worry even more about their marriage. In response, Green acknowledged that hearing an ex's name during such a personal moment is hurtful and understandably upsetting. She urged the woman to reflect on her feelings and mentioned that insecurities might be influencing her thoughts about herself compared to the ex-wife. Green also emphasized that obsessing over the past and checking social media won't help. Instead, she advised the woman to examine her trust issues and consider seeking help from a psychologist if necessary.