Parental fights in front of children harm emotional growth

Children are affected when parents argue. A schoolteacher named Neelima was surprised when a student casually shared that his parents fought about money. The child found humor in the situation, showing how normal he considered it. However, experts say this normalcy can hurt a child's development. Child psychologist Victoria Lauren explains that how parents fight is important. Disagreements happen, but healthy conflict resolution teaches children valuable skills. When disputes become toxic, they can cause long-term emotional damage. Harmful behaviors include verbal aggression, physical violence, and the silent treatment. Repeated exposure to these patterns can lead to anxiety and trust issues in children. Some kids may act out, while others withdraw or feel physical symptoms like headaches. They may also feel pressured to choose sides if parents share their frustrations. This creates confusion and psychological strain for the child. Many feel they are to blame for the arguments, carrying a heavy emotional burden. The lasting impact of witnessing bad behavior in parents can shape how children handle relationships later. One individual shared her experience growing up in a hostile environment, which led to feelings of bitterness and difficulty connecting with others. Experts suggest ways to argue in front of children without causing harm. Parents should take a timeout when arguments escalate, use a calm tone, show a healthy resolution afterward, and reassure children that they are loved. Arguments will happen, but managing them well is essential for a child’s well-being. Children need a sense of peace, not perfection, in their home life.