Filipina-Indian author Deepa Paul shares insights on open marriage in her memoir

Filipina-Indian author Deepa Paul has written a memoir, "Ask Me How It Works," detailing her experiences in an open marriage. The book explores consensual non-monogamy and offers insights into designing a life that aligns with personal desires. Paul's memoir originated from frequently asked questions about her open marriage, prompting her to document her journey. She discusses discovering polyamory after moving to Amsterdam and her initial curiosity about non-traditional sexual experiences. The book outlines the ground rules Paul and her husband established for their open marriage, including safe sex practices, regular STI testing, and boundaries regarding dating co-workers or friends.