Discuss communication preferences with your unresponsive friend

A reader has expressed concern about a friend who will not return phone calls. The friend usually sends a text saying they will call back, but the response has been delayed increasingly over time. The reader wonders how long is reasonable to wait for a return call. Miss Manners advises against rushing to judgment. She notes that phone calls can be seen as intrusive, especially in the age of texting. Many people prefer to schedule calls via text first. The reader's situation may reflect a changing preference in how people communicate. Instead of waiting for a call, the reader might find it helpful to discuss communication preferences with their friend. Setting a specific time for regular chats could ease the situation. Meeting in person or writing letters could also be good alternatives. In another question, a reader is unsure what to do with a precious set of bone china that belonged to their late mother. The china has been packed away in storage due to downsizing and having less space. Miss Manners encourages the reader to start using the china, even if it's just for personal meals or special occasions. Although fine china is less commonly used today and requires careful handling, using it can help create memories. It may also encourage younger family members to appreciate the set's sentimental value over time.