Sister borrows money yet flaunts luxury lifestyle

A woman is concerned about her younger sister, Rachel, who borrowed $1,500 for rent but is posting about luxury trips and dinners online. The woman feels taken advantage of, as Rachel has not mentioned repaying the loan. After reminding Rachel about the loan, she became defensive, claiming the woman is "obsessed with money." This situation is not new, and the woman is unsure how to address it without causing conflict. The advice suggests distinguishing between support and enabling. It recommends reminding Rachel of her repayment promise and setting clear expectations for when the money will be returned.