Messaging apps change communication with unsend features and private likes

Messaging apps have introduced features allowing users to unsend messages, changing how people communicate. This trend began with Telegram and WhatsApp in 2017, followed by Apple and Instagram, making it easier to retract statements. Instagram and X (formerly Twitter) have also made likes private, limiting users' ability to see others' interactions. This shift has reduced opportunities for social media gossip and curiosity about relationships. The article argues that these features promote careless communication and a lack of accountability. It suggests that embracing our mistakes and learning from them is more beneficial than relying on the ability to unsend messages.